Did you grow up in an emotionally unstable family situation? Maybe you didn’t even have a family. You could be that one in five person who seems to attract strange and potentially abusive people into your lives. For some, going to sleep equates to a temporary escape into a more peaceful world.
I wanted to share a fascinating blog by Steve Blank, titled, “Dysfunctional Family, you would make a great entrepreneur” The skills you possess from these kind of experiences could give you an upper hand in today’s chaotic economy and even more effectively prepare you for the successful life of an entrepreneur.
Let’s get to the Top 3 Reasons you would want to grow up in a dysfunctional Family
YOU ARE WIRED FOR CHAOS
If that is not a competitive advantage in today’s wild global economy, I don’t know what is. People spend well over $200,000 for their college education and still cannot survive in a chaotic environment.
YOU KNOW HOW TO DEAL WITH DIFFICULT PEOPLE
Lucky you. And you thought you were cursed to need to be around people who seem to have personality disorders. Guess what, those raised in a sheltered life of stable emotionally mature people have some huge surprises in store for them.
YOU DON’T GIVE UP
Has everything you accomplished in your life so far resulted from someone giving it to you on a silver platter? While there might have been some days you felt like throwing in the towel, you never gave up. You are still standing and ready for the next challenge.
If you took a survey of all those you believe are successful due to their own efforts and creativity, I am confident you will find they all possess the above qualities. I bet many of you have them too and not aware of it.
EMBRACE YOUR DYSFUNCTIONAL PAST….You are more setup for future success than you thought!!!
Action for the Day: Think of a very challenging emotional experience in your past. No one would naturally choose to have had hard and emotionally difficult life experience. But the reality is that we all have experience something unpleasant because life is unpredictable. How can you frame that experience in a way that it actually helped you to be a stronger person and deal with life’s uncertainties in a more effective way?
Quote of the Day: People begin to become successful the minute they decide to be.” — Harvey Mackay: Best-selling business author, columnist & speaker